Anger in marriage: Your role should be as it should be
(SISTERS ONLY)
Many a day marital relationship can be broken little by little by anger, value-haughtiness. The main reason is the worm called 'ego'. Be safe about marital love before such naughty insects appear. Anger can be caused by the anger of a loved one. They both deal with their confidence as they choose to embark on their play activities.
সবচেয়ে The worst thing that can happen to a couple during a fight is to leave the house blaming each other to save themselves. Such a unilateral decision can lead to serious marital ruin. After marriage, the husband's house is your own house. So why would you leave your house? Remember that if you leave the house in someone else's possession, then you have become vulnerable.
It is often seen that quarrels or arrogance started with a small word, but with the addition of many old words it becomes huge. So be careful when speaking, so that the other party does not get angry with your words in any way!
হলে If the husband is angry, in the true sense of the word, even if the wife is not wrong, the wife should be silent at that moment to prevent the situation from getting worse. Remember that being able to overcome words is not the key to victory.
অবস্থায় You should not be rude, talk or argue with your husband when you are angry. Because if you start doing this, your husband's anger will increase. And in the end any mishap could happen. For example, he may get impatient and beat up, or he may even get a divorce, God forbid. And your future will be in jeopardy. Therefore, one should try to reduce the anger of the husband without increasing it. Husband's anger will not last long if he does not find you as an opponent during anger. Later, when the husband's anger cools down, he will repent of his anger and will be impressed by your patience and good conduct.
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
If you do good, openly or secretly, or if you forgive sins, then know that Allah is Forgiving, Mighty.
Whether the husband is unjust behind the anger or not, the wife should flatter the husband even if it is flattering. Later, if the environment is normal, mistakes can be corrected. If you do, then there is good news for you from the great Rabb.
-And the retribution of evil is similar evil. Whoever forgives and compromises, his reward is with Allah; Surely He does not love the unjust.
If you have really serious wrongdoing, then it would be extremely wrong to insist. In that case, she should immediately apologize to her husband for her mistake. If the husband is not unjust, it will not be possible to humble him just by insisting. So in this case it should not be at all for the wife, to imagine that I am not wrong. On the contrary, if she can make her husband normal by flattering him, then her value to her husband will increase.
না Do not sleep in a separate bed in anger. Sleeping in a separate bed after a fight increases the distance of the mind. Husband thinks he is being neglected! So no matter how much you fight, stay in bed together. When I have a personal quarrel with my spouse, I pray for him / her in my heart. While praying, I lost my temper and silently shed tears. By the effect of my prayers, Allah also watered down his anger. So even when we are angry, we must sleep in the same bed. First, the two of them go back to sleep, then of course. You also recite dua in your mind when you are angry. Because dua in anger-sorrow-grief is a unique blessing of Allah.
থেকে If the husband's anger cannot be averted by silence, without argument, without flattery, then talk to him about his good character in a solitary intimate moment and apologize if you have done wrong. God willing, your husband's anger will subside. The air of peace in the world will remain in the book.
Remember that when a servant forgives, God increases his dignity. And if you are humble for the sake of Allah, then He will increase your dignity.
Abu Zarif
(SISTERS ONLY)
Many a day marital relationship can be broken little by little by anger, value-haughtiness. The main reason is the worm called 'ego'. Be safe about marital love before such naughty insects appear. Anger can be caused by the anger of a loved one. They both deal with their confidence as they choose to embark on their play activities.
সবচেয়ে The worst thing that can happen to a couple during a fight is to leave the house blaming each other to save themselves. Such a unilateral decision can lead to serious marital ruin. After marriage, the husband's house is your own house. So why would you leave your house? Remember that if you leave the house in someone else's possession, then you have become vulnerable.
It is often seen that quarrels or arrogance started with a small word, but with the addition of many old words it becomes huge. So be careful when speaking, so that the other party does not get angry with your words in any way!
হলে If the husband is angry, in the true sense of the word, even if the wife is not wrong, the wife should be silent at that moment to prevent the situation from getting worse. Remember that being able to overcome words is not the key to victory.
অবস্থায় You should not be rude, talk or argue with your husband when you are angry. Because if you start doing this, your husband's anger will increase. And in the end any mishap could happen. For example, he may get impatient and beat up, or he may even get a divorce, God forbid. And your future will be in jeopardy. Therefore, one should try to reduce the anger of the husband without increasing it. Husband's anger will not last long if he does not find you as an opponent during anger. Later, when the husband's anger cools down, he will repent of his anger and will be impressed by your patience and good conduct.
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
If you do good, openly or secretly, or if you forgive sins, then know that Allah is Forgiving, Mighty.
Whether the husband is unjust behind the anger or not, the wife should flatter the husband even if it is flattering. Later, if the environment is normal, mistakes can be corrected. If you do, then there is good news for you from the great Rabb.
-And the retribution of evil is similar evil. Whoever forgives and compromises, his reward is with Allah; Surely He does not love the unjust.
If you have really serious wrongdoing, then it would be extremely wrong to insist. In that case, she should immediately apologize to her husband for her mistake. If the husband is not unjust, it will not be possible to humble him just by insisting. So in this case it should not be at all for the wife, to imagine that I am not wrong. On the contrary, if she can make her husband normal by flattering him, then her value to her husband will increase.
না Do not sleep in a separate bed in anger. Sleeping in a separate bed after a fight increases the distance of the mind. Husband thinks he is being neglected! So no matter how much you fight, stay in bed together. When I have a personal quarrel with my spouse, I pray for him / her in my heart. While praying, I lost my temper and silently shed tears. By the effect of my prayers, Allah also watered down his anger. So even when we are angry, we must sleep in the same bed. First, the two of them go back to sleep, then of course. You also recite dua in your mind when you are angry. Because dua in anger-sorrow-grief is a unique blessing of Allah.
থেকে If the husband's anger cannot be averted by silence, without argument, without flattery, then talk to him about his good character in a solitary intimate moment and apologize if you have done wrong. God willing, your husband's anger will subside. The air of peace in the world will remain in the book.
Remember that when a servant forgives, God increases his dignity. And if you are humble for the sake of Allah, then He will increase your dignity.
Abu Zarif
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